Let’s be honest—homeschooling can feel overwhelming at times. Whether you’re just starting out or you’ve been at it for years, the pressure to manage everything can be intense. I’ve been there, feeling the weight of lesson plans, activities, and trying to do it all perfectly. But over time, I’ve found a few strategies that make the load lighter and the journey much more enjoyable. Here are five practical tips that have helped me reduce stress and find balance in homeschooling—hopefully, they’ll do the same for you.
1. Summer Planning
Take advantage of the summer to plan for the next school year. By getting a head start on understanding the more labor-intensive curriculums, you won’t feel rushed when the school year begins. Plus, having a solid plan in place will give you a sense of accomplishment and peace of mind.
If you homeschool year-round, be sure to carve out some downtime between school years for low-pressure planning. I usually start browsing curriculums in April or May, make purchases in June, and then take two weeks off from schooling in July or early August. This gives me time to focus on planning for the next school year while the kids enjoy a well-deserved break.
2. Tap Into Other People’s Talents
You don’t have to do it all yourself. For example, I didn’t have time to teach my son a one-on-one cooking class, but when my husband’s grandma moved nearby, it was a perfect match. My son loved his cooking classes with her once a week for several years.
Years ago, I had a friend who wasn’t into science, and I had no musical talent. We teamed up once a week: I led a science experiment with the older kids while she watched the younger ones, and then we switched. She taught music theory while I took care of the little ones. It was a win-win!
Getting others involved not only builds strong relationships but also exposes your child to different teaching styles. There’s nothing like seeing your child light up as they learn from someone passionate about what they’re teaching.
3. Don’t Keep Up with the Joneses
It’s easy to feel like you’re falling behind when you hear about another family excelling in a subject your family struggles with or see a friend going on their fifth field trip while you’re barely managing playdates. Remember, every family has difficulties, limitations, and struggles. These are usually temporary, and trying to keep up with others can lead to burnout and frustration. Instead, focus on what your family is doing well and what makes you unique.
4. Find Your Thing
Homeschooling can be all-consuming, so it’s important to find something that’s just for you. Whether it’s reading, cooking, volunteering, blogging, or crocheting, your “thing” should be low-pressure and something you’re passionate about. In fact, it’s a good idea to have a few things to turn to. Some days, you might not have the energy to sew a quilt, but listening to a good audiobook while folding laundry could be just the break you need.
I’ve seen many homeschool moms who make homeschooling their entire identity. Unfortunately, this can lead to feeling lost when the kids grow up, or worse, holding them back from becoming independent. We homeschool our children at home, but we don’t do it to keep them at home. So, make sure you find your own thing.
5. Never Forget Why You Are Doing This
Proverbs 22:6 (NKJV) says, “Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.” I believe we, as parents, are the best people to instill values and raise our children to be well-educated, independent adults. No school system, Sunday school, scouting group, or coach can take your place as a parent. They can’t provide the same level of attention and care that you will in your child’s education and development. Mentors can guide your child as they begin to discover their own beliefs and life path, but it’s up to you to lay the foundation. Homeschooling gives you the maximum opportunity to do just that.
Bottom Line
Homeschooling doesn’t have to be overwhelming. With some summer planning, a willingness to tap into the talents of others, and a focus on your family’s strengths, you can make the journey smoother and more enjoyable.
Final Thought
Remember, you’re not just homeschooling—you’re building a foundation for your child’s future. By keeping your goals in mind and finding balance in your life, you’ll not only reduce stress but also create a rich and fulfilling homeschooling experience for your entire family.